Is your mindset holding you back?  The wrong mindset can keep you stuck in your life, and it can hold you back from opportunities, success, wealth, and happiness. The wrong attitude can also lead to poor decisions, challenges, and other difficulties that keep you struggling.

Mindset Tune-up
If you’re feeling stuck, can’t move forward, and don’t have all that you want in life, your mindset may be to blame. Once you fix a negative mindset, you’ll find that life gets a lot easier and happier, and more opportunities present themselves.

Signs That Your Mindset is Holding You Back

1. You have a negative attitude

When good things happen, do you automatically assume “this is too good to be true” or “this will never work out” or even “this is going to well, something’s going to go wrong?” Your beliefs often lead to your reality. When you think thoughts like this, you often make them come true by focusing on them.

Instead, try thinking positively. “This is a great opportunity and I’m so fortunate to have it.” “Things may not be perfect, but I can figure it out and everything will work out fine.” This kind of attitude adjustment can help you deal with negativity and turn it around.

2. You put yourself down

When you’re constantly telling yourself, “I’m not good enough,” you’re creating your reality. Meditation is a great way to deal with negative self-talk and help you build your confidence. Step outside your comfort zone from time to time to prove to yourself that you’re capable of more than you think. And switch your negative self-talk to positive affirmations that you can say to yourself whenever you’re feeling down.

3. Being afraid of failure

Failure is inevitable. It’s going to happen to everyone at some time or another. It’s how you deal with the failure that makes you a success. If you’re always afraid of failure, you’re going to make more mistakes and deal with more struggles.

Instead, know that if failure comes, you’ll deal with it head-on. You’ll learn a valuable lesson, and you’ll know mistakes to avoid in the future. Failure can be a good learning opportunity.

4. Being afraid of change

Much like a failure, change is also inevitable, and it’s usually beyond your control. Outside factors and other people can change the course of your life and the things you do without any warning. A sudden job layoff, an accident, or an unexpected event can lead to significant changes. But change can be good in that it opens you up to new opportunities and challenges your strength, and it allows you to prove to yourself that you’re stronger than you thought.

5. Depending on fate

Miracles will undoubtedly come into your life and bring joy and opportunity. Still, if you’re sitting around waiting on a miracle and not doing anything yourself to move forward, then you’re holding yourself back.

Making a plan and taking action will open you up to the possibilities of more miracles and wonderful things happening. If there’s something you really want, figure out how to make it happen and get to work.

If you experience any of these things, then you’re definitely allowing your mindset to hold you back. Change your negative attitude, make a plan, believe in yourself, and don’t be afraid of failure or change. You’ll start to notice more positive things happening in your life when you open yourself up to a positive mindset.

If You Need Help With Your Career

If you find yourself in a situation where you need career advice and want to talk about navigating it and planning for your future, reach out to Rachel Schneider with CareerFind for a free intro call.